Hello,

Attraction is a drive, or a feeling most people find impossible to avoid. It’s a part of life which includes a broad range of areas to explore not limited to dating and relationships.

Attraction-101, with the help of you and your feedback, is your classroom to use and become a more attractive man.

I’m your teacher. You can call me Mister White.

For those of you who get to know me better you can call me Pete.  I’m here to help you learn and I will try to keep things simple and to the point. The last thing I want is my students to be sleeping or drawing sexy pictures on the desks.

I’m not going to waste any of your time. We have a lot to cover so let’s get started.

Welcome to Attraction 101 -

Here’s to You Becoming a More Attractive Man

When a man and a woman are attracted to each other…We call it Attraction!

Let’s define that statement further.

“When” - The feelings or emotions a man experiences happen in almost a fraction of a second. A woman experiences these emotions in the same time frame. Although it’s believed it takes a female a short time longer than a male.

Attracted – This is a word given to explain what a person feels when they a drawn to another individual. This is not the same as desire or wanting another because:

1. Want implies choice.
2. Desire implies lust and a physical connection.

Attraction – When two or more objects, (a man and a woman or any combination) are physically and mentally drawn towards each other we say there is an attraction between them.

I would say the biggest problem with being attracted to someone is (in a way) that it controls our actions.

It causes some men to act like immature boys. It causes some women to even want to be treated like little girls. It can bring out jealous rages. It can cause some men to stalk their attraction. It can cause some men to blindly fight. It can cause some women to not see anything but her attraction. It can cause some women to, like the man, fight over their attraction.

Among other actions this instinctive feeling can bring out is:

-Wanting to be like someone else.
-Dressing like someone else.
-Thinking attraction can be forced upon another.
-Trying too hard.
-Not trying hard enough and secluding yourself into a life a misery.
-It has even been known for some people to give up their lives because they could not  overcome a deep need for the person they are attracted to.

The second biggest problem associated with attraction is the fuzzy line between being physically attractive (good-looking, beautiful, gorgeous, hot, sexy, etc…)  and creating feelings of attraction in someone else despite how we look on the outside.

-I may be overweight but if I wear this I will look better and men will finally notice me.
-I may be broke now but when I’m rich women will finally like me.
-I may be getting older but if I take the time to keep my look up eventually I will meet a man who is physically attracted to me.
-Does he just want me for my body?
-Does she just want me for my money?
-If men could only see the real me and not some chic with big breasts…I’m tired of being a sex object.
-If women could only love the real me and look past my physical inadequacies…I’m tired of being labeled a nice friend.

ATTRACTION101 is our class room to learning how to become a  more attractive man.

And just like any other class experience, be on time, show your work, pay attention and you’ll walk away with a A+ certification. Except this certification won’t get you a job or land you a career.

This education will get you what you want. After that you must learn to the choice is yours how to handle the outcome of your decisions. Meaning if you’re going to play a woman, or use a man, that’s your choice to do so and honestly I couldn’t care less either way.

The whole point of this introductory course called ATTRACTION101 is to have you:

• Contribute your opinions even if the social world you live in thinks you are wrong.
• Offer your advice no matter how personal they are.
• Participate in the learning process by actually going on and doing something about it.
• Offer advice on fashion, what to wear, how to wear it, keep up with the latest trends, what your shoes says about you, and even where to find the cheapest clothes and still look your best.
• Comment on people’s pictures and how they can change their physical appearance to appeal to a wider variety of men and women.
• Being physically attractive is important here. Le’s not overlook the obvious. How you look can make a great first impression.
• Creating a personality that is attractive is also important here. Your self-worth, how others feel your energy, how you can become more selfish to be more selfless. Everything matters.